Brag Better | Meredith Fineman

Summary of: Brag Better: Master the Art of Fearless Self-Promotion
By: Meredith Fineman


In today’s highly competitive world, relying solely on hard work and quality output may not be enough to help you stand out. ‘Brag Better: Master the Art of Fearless Self-Promotion’ by Meredith Fineman takes you on a journey to find confidence in your abilities and learn how to share your accomplishments in a smart and effective manner. The book emphasizes the importance of speaking confidently, being specific, telling your story, and shaping your image in order to call attention to your achievements. Get ready to master the art of bragging better to enhance your professional and personal image without coming off as a braggart.

Bragging Better

Many people rely on their hard work and expect that it will speak for itself. However, this is not the case, and bragging can help to promote your accomplishments. Bragging does not involve exaggeration or self-promotion, but rather, it is finding the confidence to share your achievements. Bragging can help you to speak confidently, get specific, tell your story, and shape your image. Bragging can bring your skills to light and help others perceive you as self-assured and capable. Bragging better is not about insulting others or self-deprecation, but rather about presenting your skills in an acceptable way. By learning to brag in an effective and efficient manner, you can call attention to your accomplishments, your genius, and your impact.

Celebrate Your Achievements

Don’t shy away from acknowledging your accomplishments. Embrace them by creating “brags” that showcase your hard work. The book encourages us to keep a record of our personal and professional achievements, big or small, and quantify them with specific values. By using “superpower words” to describe ourselves, we can communicate our message consistently across different settings. The author advises constructing brags with clear and concise language while maintaining a proud voice. We need to recognize our worth and take pride in our accomplishments, rather than shying away from them.

Language Choices by Scientists

A study on language choices made by scientists found that male scientists use positive terminology more frequently than female scientists. The study also reveals that scientists are more likely to cite papers by other scientists when those papers feature positive language. The use of “loud” language diminishes one’s accomplishments, especially women. Instead, one should be direct and remove any phrases that undercut their accomplishments. The perfect way to brag involves elements of gratitude, pride, presentation, and showmanship.

Strategize Your Brags

To effectively use your bragging moments, you need a clear strategy. Start by defining your goals and setting timeframes for achieving them. Answer questions like why you want to achieve those goals, how you plan to achieve them, what your professional image looks like, and who your audience is. Practice with colleagues, reflect, and refine your delivery. The book emphasizes the importance of being ready for opportunities, which present themselves daily. Finally, strategize your message and tailor your approach to your audience, whether it’s your boss, colleagues, friends, or the public. Remember that having a strategy for your brags involves being clear on what you want, knowing your audience, and doing the prep work to get it.

Self-Promotion Techniques

Creating a strong personal brand is becoming increasingly essential in today’s world, and it requires smart self-promotion. Public relations (PR) specialists know this art well, and there are three fundamental ways you can promote yourself: creating a strong resume, crafting a bio that expands your online visibility, and creating a personal website to showcase your skills. By packaging your story creatively and carefully, you get people to pay attention to you. Choose your words carefully when introducing yourself to others and show them that you are well-prepared, and you have something unique to offer them. Use a pitch to initiate a dialogue with your audience, making sure to provide a relatable example and explain your role. Lastly, refine your message through perseverance, accepting rejections, and preparing for the next opportunity.

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